You're right the dealers will do the plastic one for $189 pick up from down the road. But the polished stainless one does look nice. If I have to change it anyway I'd consider the upgrade.
I believe the link for the grille you posted is for the updated 2012 model Tig. I need the honeycomb one for the 2008-2011 (pre facelift) model. I'm pretty sure the ebay grille won't fit my older model.
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