The failure is all about the length of the sway bar link, the angle of the head (the way it pushes up with a twisting force twists / sideloads the coilover bracket).
You need to have the correct link for the application, and generally the stock one wont work & cause a failure (because of the above) unless the coil over was designed to use stock mounts.
To work out the length you need (if you are making your own), you need to have the car sitting level (loaded), the sway bar set to its intermediate movement position, and then set the sway bar link length from that. Once the length is set, then position the ball head in the centre of the steering movement plane, so there is no side load from turning. This is the part that starts to flex the mount on the strut & causes the failure.
Here is a pic of the links supplied with the VWR coilovers, being installed on a customers Golf R. You can see the adjustable heads / ends.
http://www.vwwatercooled.com.au/forums/
Nolathane make a good adjustable product, you need to measure the bolt hole size for your application - but they are a great cost effective solution:
Nolathane 42790 Front Sway bar - link assembly