Hi Hillbilly.
Those original pics you refer to are off the internet - I just googled them for reference.
Mine look like the below.
1st pic is accessing the Assist menu via the "Views" using the button on the RHS of the steering wheel (note the back arrow in the menu)
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2nd pic is using the shortcut button via the LHS stalk
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Mine is a July 2018 build. I don't have access to ACC and Speed Limiter through the Assist Menu (or LHS stalk).
These are
only available through the buttons on the LHS of the steering wheel.