OK, so I LOVE my car...but there are a couple of things that are really bugging me. Now it may be me - and I may be something wrong, so I would appreciate any input please

I have the full electric seats. I have a saved setting for the adjustments. BUT, every time - and I mean EVERY time I unlock the car, it flattens the seat level out. I have to then readjust it again!
I have tried following all the directions for saving a setting, and storing it in. Also with the corresponding key. But it still will not hold the settings.

The other thing I hate is the "stop-start" tech. on my very slightly inclined driveway, it turns off while the car is warming up, then will not just start again. I have to actually turn it on again.
So, is there some way to PERMANENTLY turn it off?

Thanks all!