Did a quick search of the VW T4 Forum - VW T5 Forum engine forum and found many threads on failed oil coolers.
Here is a couple that have the same symptoms as yours:
Oily in the expansion tank - VW T4 Forum - VW T5 Forum
2006 T5 130 Auto oil on top of coolant - VW T4 Forum - VW T5 Forum
It doesn't prove this is what's wrong with yours, but you may find these very interesting.
Brian
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