Molotov, it sounds to me like the dealer and/or salesman you were talking to was telling you "little fibs" about the Polo GTI and Golf R in the hope of steering you towards a Golf GTI (I presume). This way the dealer is able to get a sale on the books a little earlier etc.
If you order either the Polo GTI or Golf R, you will get exactly the options that you've requested - unless the dealer stuff's up the order entry(though there's plenty of time to figure that one out).
As others have suggested, try another dealer.
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