As I mentioned earlier, I have a mate with a 2012 Polo 77tsi. This guy knows how to pedal a car (he's much faster than me) and knows a lot about suspension and vehicle handling. Possibly one of the most gifted amateur mechanics I've worked with. The Polo is the "shared car" with his wife. Before that his wife had a very nicely sorted Ford Fiesta on Koni Sports (fantastic compliant ride but incredibly planted around corners) and his previous cars were a Lotus Evora, Lotus Elise & a Gen4 Liberty with aftermarket bilsteins and custom wound springs to his specifications (and some other suspension trickery).
One of his main criteria is that his wife shouldn't be able to tell the car has been "made sporty". He does about 30,000km/yr and a lot of the roads are fairly crap.
Here's what he had to say when the car reached it's 3rd birthday & 92,000km:
His setup is:
OEM 15" rims (6" width???)
195/55r15 ContiPremiumContact2 tyres. I think he runs about 36psi - maybe 38...
Koni Sports adjustable dampers - fronts about 1.5 turns from soft; rears about 1 turn from soft. (I think there are 3 turns of adjustment)
Steering weight reset heavier (Seat spec) via VCDS
Front lower control arm bushes replaced with Whiteline Nolathene items with increased caster.
Whiteline W53189 Control arm - lower inner rear bushing (caster correction)
Whiteline W52091 Control arm - lower inner front bushing
And a REALLY GOOD WHEEL ALIGNMENT!!!! (Most shops haven't a clue how to adjust these cars and just do the toe on the front).
I'd get the ride the way you like it & worry about the tune later.
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