Nolathane Front Control Arm Rear Bush ($80) - Repco
Whiteline Front Swaybar BWF18Z ($265) - Fr Whiteline
Whiteline Rear Swaybar BWF19Z ($265) - Fr Whiteline
Whiteline Rear Axle Lock W63198 ($80) - Fr Ebay
New front strut mounts
AP SportsFahrwerke Suspension Kit (non adjustable) SP80-074 - ($450) Ebay (Tunershop-worldwide)

Happy days! Car feels great now. Sits 30mm lower, and even rides slightly better than stock. Mind you it has done 115,000ks on the factory shocks and bushes and what not.

Turn in is still ok, not great, but settles in nicely once you get past that initial softness. None of freaky toe out you get from the stock control arm bushes, or floatiness from the worn shocks / beam axle movement now.