Good luck sman66. Hope you get it sorted. Maybe find yourself a cancelled order that suits you and is on its way. Apparently, non-metro dealers may have orders not sold yet.
As to long waits for R's, common wisdom around here is demand > planned supply. Constraint in supply of some parts has been suggested as the culprit. Similar situation is happening to new model Polo.
If you are sticking with your factory order, build date is key in figuring out ETA. Once past that bottleneck, the other things that needs to happen can flow smoothly.