Before jumping to conclusions that you need respraying or the damage itself i would highly suggest taking your car professional and asking for advice to see what can be done.
If you like to come by here we would be more than happy to assess things for you and let you know what needs to be done as you will be surprised how much can be done without having to paint the car etc and be cost effective and give you the result you like!
But we definitely always suggest never taking your car to a car wash full stop for the obvious reasons.
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